I make a guy wait a long time, and it got progressively longer by each boyfriend. First boyfriend, six months.  Second one, eight.  The next one, a year. The next one, a year and a half. But to me, that wasn’t crazy.  I think it was just the things that they would do because I made them wait was pretty hilarious. That’s why I always tell girls,“Don’t give it up! Make him work for it! Please!” Guys will do anything. I’ve been on trips. What’s hilarious is there’s guys out there, they’ll give you the money if you allow them to, but I won’t take it.

A single woman – if you’re in it… if you’re into being intimate with a guy because it’s what you want to do, then for sure – go for it. But I’m very old school. Wait. Be patient. Because I feel like anything that’s worth the wait, it’ll happen for sure.

Don’t second guess yourself or put their needs before yours ever, because what’s weird, there’s this story Lysistata, where all the women stop having sex with their husbands to stop the war. But we don’t get that. We really hold the key to the power if we just use our minds and put ourselves to it, because it is what it is.

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